UNDERSTANDING WHY

With several lamentation from the ladies or better put the women since the era of Eden, it presents and represents the male-hood to be that devilish and heartless. Likewise, the men will never admit any fault as they will comment the female-hood to be selfish and deceptive. But most times I ponder over this issue as in relation to my personality, this made me give more listening hears to both hoods and with a thorough consideration of what engineered most lament. Sincerely, I realized that both the male and female hood has no standing in the blame box but need to embrace mutual understanding.

I reasoned it seriously why most love pulls out with quarry noise? The space for mutual understanding and personal dealings has been replaced with selfish leassure. Pride has taken over from care and humility. these applies to both parties and no party is left justified.

What is the fault of the accused party? He lied to me, she cheated on me, he betrayed my trust blablabla... we can name a lot but the question is who is really independent of all these? When we reason over most issues, we will realize that we ourselves are guilty of those things on which we criticize others. Though we may not display it the way it's been displayed by the other party but in another form, we are even worse.

To present and represent better personal curriculum, tolerance and understanding is highly needed, pride and high blooded temperament should be dumped, second reasoning at others weakness is needed because when we understand the weakness of the other party and realized his or her action is unintentionally from weaknesses, we will tolerate our faults with lovely correction and help each other to build each other' strength and confidence. If this can be successfully archived, we will notice a peaceful, healthy and lovely relationship among us. This is what we need to make our world a better place to live.